Psychology

To Find What’s Missing, Look in the Gaps
There’s what we believe. And then there’s whatever is absolutely 100-percent true and real. In the gap between our beliefs…
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How Does Your Personality Type Match Up With Your Partner’s?
It is my belief that the #1 reason marriages—or all types of close personal relationships—fail, is because the two people…
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Should We Get Married? (Part 1)
In Wonder Woman lore—including the 2017 Gal Gadot film—there exists an island of Amazonian women unknown and invisible to the…
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You Can Check Out Any Time You Like, But You Can Never Leave
I’m good at hiding it. The emotional baggage I drag around all the time. Most of the time, I forget…
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3 Ways to Move Past or Protect Yourself from Rejection in Relationships and Dating
When I wasn’t crying over my divorce and broken family, I was mostly getting dating wrong. Must Be This Tall…
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The Coming Divorce Decline? I’ll Believe it When I See It
It looks and sounds like awesome news—like everything I want for my little boy and everyone else’s kids. The divorce…
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A Marriage Alternative: How Considering a Shift to Temporary Marriage Might Benefit Your Relationship
My brain and gut recoiled in disgust at the two words: Temporary Marriage. They were hyperlinked in my email to…
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What Would You Do if You Could Learn Almost Anything You Wanted To?
Somewhere in the world, there exists a person who could objectively and legitimately be called The Smartest Person on Earth.…
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The 3 Tiers of Lying and How Well-Intentioned Lies Can Still Destroy Relationships
How many times have you lied to people you genuinely love and respect in the past few days? If someone…
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If Marriage Were an Airplane, Which Matters More—the Engine or the Wings?
I’m not an aviation expert or aeronautical engineer, but I’m pretty sure airplanes need their engines AND wings both to…
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