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What Being Drugged and Robbed Taught Me About Rape Culture
I’d only been conscious for a half-hour or so, and I was fighting tears because as a general rule, I…
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How Accidental Sexism Ruined My Marriage (and Might be Ruining Yours)
I did, said, and believed things throughout my youth and marriage that were totally sexist—even though I didn’t view them…
The Coming Divorce Decline? I’ll Believe it When I See It
It looks and sounds like awesome news—like everything I want for my little boy and everyone else’s kids.
The divorce…
You’re Right, Guys—You Can’t Make Women Happy
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The Myth of the Nagging Wife — It’s Invisible Burns That Actually End Marriages
We sometimes hear husbands complain about their stupid, bitchy, nagging wives.
Some of them probably are married to petty, unkind…
I’m Starting a Cult Called “Your Gender-Politics Cult is Bullshit”
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“Don’t call my cult bullshit, you pansy-ass mangina!”
Sorry, Johnny Men’s Rights. Maybe stop peddling bullshit.
“You…
Some People Are Women, Others Are Men, and it’s Getting Hard to Talk About
My most popular articles tell true stories about my failed marriage and also tend to include a bunch of my…
The Cancer of Misunderstanding
Remember when we were kids?
Afraid of getting on the big roller coasters. Afraid of jumping off the high-dive at…
Guys: Emotions Matter, Are Normal, and You’re Not a Weak Pussy for Having Them
Author’s Note: I think the #1 problem in the world is how poorly humans manage their relationships. Even if you…
The Things We Don’t Teach Men (And How It Ruins Everything)
The world fails men.
We fail everyone, but we fail men in particular. And that failure leads to a countless…
