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I Don’t Smoke Cigars
It’s the little moments that change your life forever. The whispers. The That almost happened! moments. The close calls. ……
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How to Not Choose Yourself
It’s so easy to feel sorry for yourself. I do it all the time. Because I lost my wife. Because…
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The Overdue Library Books
I’m coming unraveled. And I’m angry. At myself. At my ex-wife. At my life. But mostly, it’s just me. Own…
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How to Succeed at Anything
It’s not easy. But it is simple. If you want to succeed—in anything, whether it be love, or work, or…
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Bad Luck with a Side of Perspective
I played poker for the first time since my wife left. Just a few hours ago. My hopes were high…
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Change Your Culture, Change Your World
I have a bit of a man crush on Seth Godin. Because he, in many ways, represents who I want…
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