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How to Lose Sleep in 6 Easy Steps
Ever feel like you’re getting too much sleep? Do you wish you could yawn more, feel lethargic and get that…
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Buyer’s Remorse
And just like that <insert dramatic hand motion here>, she was gone. I don’t have the Girlfriend Litmus Test anymore.…
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Change Your Culture, Change Your World
I have a bit of a man crush on Seth Godin. Because he, in many ways, represents who I want…
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Fishing with Mandy, Vol. 2
I don’t want to walk this world alone. Like Caine in Kung Fu. Most likely, I will one day be…
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I May Have Serious Issues
I have a small cut on my right cheek due to a shaving accident yesterday morning that I may let…
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Facing the Fear
I have an unhealthy and unreasonable fear of failure. I recognize that I have this problem and that it holds…
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Adopt the Rhythm of Change
Don’t get too comfortable. I don’t mean that in an inner-peace kind of way. It’s hard to even get out…
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Carrying Crosses
Everyone has their cross to bear. The phrase comes from the story of Jesus of Nazareth’s death by crucifixion. Regardless…
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Fishing With Mandy
I had an interesting conversation about marriage yesterday with the woman I respect most in the world. Her marriage is…
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Three Poles in the Pond
My neighbor Ryan thinks he’s the Dating Czar of the Universe. It cracks me up. I’m not saying definitively that…
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