Marriage

How Trying to ‘Fit In’ Can Ruin Your Life and Marriage
As far back as I remember, I was taught that some human behaviors are so bad that if you do…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 14
Because I failed to create any type of plan or structure to ensure preparation and acknowledgment of special occasions like…
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The Subtle Difference Between Shitty and Non-Shitty Husbands and Wives
The difference is so subtle that I didn’t recognize it until now. And now that I have, it isn’t hard…
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The Marriage Paradox
They had a chance encounter on 5th Avenue in New York City. The boy and the girl in the movie…
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Do You Love Your Spouse Enough?: The Uncomfortable Truth About Who Should Rank #1 Among Our Spouses, Children & Parents
Where does your spouse or romantic partner rank in your life? Take all the time you need to think before…
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Safety and Trust in Relationships: Those Words Don’t Mean What You Think They Mean
Author’s Note: I think the #1 problem in the world is how poorly humans manage their relationships. Even if you…
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The Things We Don’t Teach Men (And How It Ruins Everything)
The world fails men. We fail everyone, but we fail men in particular. And that failure leads to a countless…
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Can We Use Personality Matching and Astrology to Have the Perfect Partner and Marriage? Kind Of!
Someone asked me what I thought about using astrology as a compass for romantic compatibility. Fair question, I think. No…
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I Didn’t Trust My Wife Long Before She Stopped Trusting Me
I trusted my wife with everything I thought was important. I trusted her with everything that mattered to me. I…
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‘Should I Divorce My Wife?’
You two are fighting a lot, sleeping in separate places, not having sex, nor really even talking to each other…
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