Being Human

Fishing with Mandy, Vol. 2
I don’t want to walk this world alone. Like Caine in Kung Fu. Most likely, I will one day be…
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Parenting Class
I was a half hour early. The police officer manning the security checkpoint at the courthouse had to unlock the…
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I May Have Serious Issues
I have a small cut on my right cheek due to a shaving accident yesterday morning that I may let…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 2
There’s a huge difference between being “whipped” and being a man who puts his wife first. Being whipped is cowardly.…
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Adopt the Rhythm of Change
Don’t get too comfortable. I don’t mean that in an inner-peace kind of way. It’s hard to even get out…
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Carrying Crosses
Everyone has their cross to bear. The phrase comes from the story of Jesus of Nazareth’s death by crucifixion. Regardless…
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Fishing With Mandy
I had an interesting conversation about marriage yesterday with the woman I respect most in the world. Her marriage is…
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The Other One That Got Away
Not everyone has one. A “one that got away.” I have two. Once my parents split prior to my fifth…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 1
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Three Poles in the Pond
My neighbor Ryan thinks he’s the Dating Czar of the Universe. It cracks me up. I’m not saying definitively that…
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