The Missing Motivation
People think I’m a good person, but really I’m not. I don’t mean that I’m bad, like I hurt people…
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One Year Later, Vol. 2
I’m back in Illinois, where my father lives and where I typically visit twice a year to catch up with…
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One Year Later
A year ago, I was crying at least once a week. Drinking all the time, because distracted fun was the…
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The Inconvenient Truth About Divorce One Year Later
It makes you feel weak. It makes you feel like a chump. In manspeak, it makes you feel like a…
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The Dead Birds
I have never stumbled on a dead body even though there are more than seven billion people on the planet.…
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The Separation Anniversary
She took off her wedding ring one year ago today. That’s when I learned she did, anyway. It was Easter…
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Guest Post: I Got Your Back
NOTE: This is the third in a series of guest posts scheduled to run while I’m off doing something else.…
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Groundhog Day CXXIII
“This is one time where television really fails to capture the true excitement of a large squirrel predicting the weather.”…
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A Vacation From My Problems
For the first time since the Fourth of July 2013, I am getting out of town. Much-needed time away. To…
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It’s Okay to Hurt
Sarah was just a child when she lost her big sister. A gorgeous 17-year-old. Stricken with cancer. Died in her…
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