Spirituality

The Word for 2014
Every New Year’s Eve, one of my friends and her sisters each choose a word they intend to make their…
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The Pursuit of Happiness
People chase money. They chase sex. Fame. Status. They chase adventure. Education. Fitness. People chase fun. Friendship. Spiritual peace. ……
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How to Be a Man, Vol. 2
It was about 5 a.m. this morning when I discovered a subgroup of people I seriously didn’t know existed. The…
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How to Change the World
“I have fought against white domination, and I have fought against black domination. I have cherished the ideal of a…
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Do What Matters
What matters most varies from person to person. Often it’s our children. Our family. Our friends. Our faith. We value…
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The Overdue Library Books
I’m coming unraveled. And I’m angry. At myself. At my ex-wife. At my life. But mostly, it’s just me. Own…
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The Writing Itch and a Love Song for One
I woke up today and thought to myself for the first time in my entire life: I can write a…
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Nothing is Sound
We were standing in the kitchen, drinking, but not yet buzzed. There was a small party at our house, but…
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How to Live a Regret-Free Life
You’re going to die. Just like me. It might be in 80 years. It might be in 10. It might…
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How to Rescue People with a Keyboard
He was driving a little faster than usual—in a rush to pick up his children from school. The school fines…
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