Life

Misunderstood: The Rule of Thirds
My younger sister, a talented musician and vocalist, is afraid to write and share original music because she’s afraid of…
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The Missing Motivation
People think I’m a good person, but really I’m not. I don’t mean that I’m bad, like I hurt people…
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Who Am I?
I glanced at the calendar. The year is more than halfway over. That was fast. Maybe my life is, too.…
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The Gray Area
I prefer things to be black and white. Good or bad. Right or wrong. When there are choices to be…
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One Year Later, Vol. 2
I’m back in Illinois, where my father lives and where I typically visit twice a year to catch up with…
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One Year Later
A year ago, I was crying at least once a week. Drinking all the time, because distracted fun was the…
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A New Page on Shitty Husbands
Because my An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands posts continue to be the most-popular things on this blog, I decided…
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I’m On Drugs
I don’t know if it’s my third straight week on antibiotics, the narcotic painkillers, or all of the things in…
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Must Be This Healthy To Ride
Because I have a wicked imagination and scare easily, I thought I might be dying. An infection in one of…
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We Write the Stories
“People tell you who they are. But we ignore it because we want them to be who we want them…
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