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My New Book Gets Published Today and I Really Hope You’ll Buy a Copy
You know, I never imagined writing non-fiction. Certainly not about divorce and relationships, and certainly not about me, personally.
But…
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The Two Reoccurring Moments That Destroy Trust in Relationships
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In one home, it’s a pair of dehumidifiers near the family’s basement laundry room.
In another home,…
Maybe Your Marriage Sucks Because You Don’t Really Know Your Spouse
I never really knew my wife even though we were married for nine years and together for 13.
Not because…
Not Afraid to Step Into the Fight When We Can’t See the Light
(Author’s note: Writing and posting today nearly undermines its intended purpose. Today is not a day for my voice. It’s…
Love in the Time of Coronavirus
So I’ve been thinking about this virus going around. You know the one.
I’m scheduled to turn 41 later this…
Taking the Wheel Vs. Destroying Our Marriages on Autopilot
The word ‘habits’—at least for me—conjures images of working out or smoking or biting my fingernails.
People talk about developing…
The Idea That Would Have Saved My Marriage and Might Save Yours
The reasons more than half of all romantic relationships (including marriage) fail are not obvious to most people.
If you…
Save Your Marriage Using the Monster-Under-the-Bed Theory
Imagine getting a phone call. You answer. A stranger on the other end of the line identifies his or herself…
Where to Find Solutions to Your Relationship Problems
The best places to look for solutions — to any significant problem you may face; not just relationship problems —…
Break Toxic Communication Habits with The STFU Method
Actor and comedian Denis Leary has a bit in his hilarious 1992 stand-up act No Cure for Cancer where he…
What Being Drugged and Robbed Taught Me About Rape Culture
I’d only been conscious for a half-hour or so, and I was fighting tears because as a general rule, I…
