Matthew Fray

Carrying Crosses
Everyone has their cross to bear. The phrase comes from the story of Jesus of Nazareth’s death by crucifixion. Regardless…
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Fishing With Mandy
I had an interesting conversation about marriage yesterday with the woman I respect most in the world. Her marriage is…
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The Other One That Got Away
Not everyone has one. A “one that got away.” I have two. Once my parents split prior to my fifth…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 1
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Three Poles in the Pond
My neighbor Ryan thinks he’s the Dating Czar of the Universe. It cracks me up. I’m not saying definitively that…
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The Hilariously Unfunny Date… LOL
Picture this, boys. One of your buddies comes up to you and says: “Hey, you’re dating, right? I know a…
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The Girlfriend Litmus Test
I drive a 2005 Pontiac Grand Prix. Waiting for the punch line? That’s the punch line. I drive the most-average…
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Online Dating is Nonsense
So, the other night, I went on my first date since 2001. Because I’m 34, only know married people, and…
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